Holding Sacred Space through
Life’s Final Transitions.
My Personal Journey
For me the path to becoming a Death Doula began not in a classroom, but beside my sister’s hospital bed.
“My work is not just about death, but living consciously, lovingly, and with reverence.”
When I was 19 years old, my 29 year old sister was diagnosed with breast cancer. After she failed treatment, I took a leave of absence from school and went to take care of her and her 3 young children. She died 2 weeks after my 21st birthday. I returned to nursing school while experiencing the depths of grief.
Studying grief academically became a natural extension of attempting to survive my own pain.
Upon graduation, I knew I wanted to work in a major medical center. Johns Hopkins Hospital offered me a position….in the last place I wanted to work - Oncology. After a year of diving into the depths of cancer care, I knew that my life’s path was unfolding.
Not only did I feel a certain passion for expanding my knowledge around relieving suffering; I found I had a spiritual connection to my patients and their families and I was able to hold people in a special way during unspeakable experiences.
I pursued a Master of Science in Nursing at Johns Hopkins University and during that time studied Hospice care extensively - including policy, practice, and administrative perspectives.
After moving to the rural Eastern Shore of Maryland, I began teaching at Salisbury University. I quickly realized that there was a high cancer rate and very few resources for people navigating the complexities of care during a cancer diagnosis. I began to receive calls and helped individuals and families navigate the complex systems of care. Together with some other dedicated cancer survivors and professionals, we then founded the first rural chapter of what is now known as The Cancer Support Community - Gilda’s Club. I also then served on the National Board, helping to guide non-profit cancer support services for the country. Through all of this, I continued my connections to our local hospice community and became an unofficial resource for family and friends.
The End of Life Doula Movement was in its infancy at the time, but was the perfect model for not only what I thought every person approaching the end of life should have - but what I craved when I was caring for my sister, and what I had been providing for friends and family over the years. I pursued Official Training from the International End of Life Doula Association and then worked to bring the model to my local hospice.
My combined background in Medical Systems, Spiritual Connection, and Holding Space for clients allow me to offer Clarity and Deep Compassion during life’s most profound transitions.
I now reside in both Maine and Maryland and support individuals and families in both places physically and virtually.
“It is an intimate and sacred honor to be of service to those approaching, preparing for, and experiencing the end of life transition and their loved ones.”
My Professional Experience and
Community Leadership:
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University of Delaware, Bachelor of Science in Nursing, BSN
Johns Hopkins University, Master of Science in Nursing, MScN
International End of Life Doula Association, (INELDA), End-of-Life Doula Training
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The Johns Hopkins Hospital, Oncology Nurse
Salisbury University School of Nursing, Faculty
The Cancer Support Community - Delmarva, Founding Board Member
Talbot Hospice Foundation, Doula Volunteer
Hospice of Southern Maine, Volunteer
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Worcester County Youth & Family Counseling, Berlin, MD
Atlantic General Hospital Foundation, Berlin, MD
Community Foundation of the Eastern Shore, Salisbury, MD
The Cancer Support Community - Delmarva, Salisbury, MD
The Cancer Support Community - National, Washington, DC
Talbot Hospice Foundation, Easton, MD
The Gunston School, Centreville, MD
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I support individuals and families with everything from symptom and care-planning to emotional support and legacy work. Whether you're facing an immediate transition or preparing for the future, I’m here to guide with clarity, warmth, and deep compassion.